Are Modern Dating Trends Sabotaging True Love?

When something is on trend, it’s easy to be swept up in its allure. But when it comes to dating trends, the results might not be what we wish for.

The Toxic Side of Trends

Ghosting and situationships are just a couple of examples of modern dating trends that seem more harmful than beneficial. Dr. Emily Jamea, an acclaimed sex and relationship therapist, points out how trends like ‘the ick’ have people categorizing normal human behaviors as turn-offs – a practice that can deter genuine connections.

Chasing Control through Vices

Many of us adopt trends like ‘boysober’ or the ‘celibacy era’ as a way to reign in control after getting hurt. While it feels like we’re safeguarding our emotions, these trends might be tying us to solitude instead of helping us find love.

The Persuasion of Popularity

How do these trends gain so much traction? Perhaps it’s the comfort they provide in a world of uncertainties. When heartache strikes, adhering to unwritten rules like ‘stay single for a year’ feels prudent – yet doesn’t always yield happiness.

The Illusion of Safety

For writer Sammi Caramela, trends like ‘the ick’ are merely shields from potential heartache. But in reality, they might be pushing us away from the intimacy we yearn for. Dr. Jamea encourages questioning whether these trends serve us or if they merely distance us from emotional connections.

Reimagining Relationships

Is it time to see relationships as a chance to explore ourselves rather than a battleground for our insecurities? Breaking from these trends might lead to more dynamic and fulfilling connections. According to VICE, understanding this could be the first step towards finding true love.