My boyfriend and I have been living together for a year now, he moved here from another city about a year ago. He quickly found a job and it's obvious that he's trying, working hard, earning a ****ing wage.

There were a couple of times when he said he wished I was a bit thinner, even bought me a season ticket to the pool. But then I said no, because I was shy.

His parents came to visit us to see how we lived and how their son lived. We met my parents, sat together, everything was OK. But it wasn't like that.

The next day, when he went out alone with his parents, he came home and said that his parents thought I was "pretty, but half-assed", and he agreed with them and discussed me a bit, even though I was "talkative and interesting", that was their opinion of me.

It insulted me as a girl, makes me think we were living with him and he was just lying to me about liking my looks. Maybe he was just taking advantage.

Ended up saying the next day I wanted to live alone, think about it. I really like his character, if you take all the guys I've dated, he's the most understanding, affectionate, in bed everything was always okay, always cared.

Now I sit and think, I don't know whether to believe him or not. I do have feelings for him. I don't know what to do?