Hi, I'm 23, all my life I've raced in sneakers, loafers, moccasins and a bunch of trousers, jeans, shorts, etc.

All my friends are dressed the same, I can't even stand on heels (4 cm wedge heels for a photo shoot, my mother's, the horror) and in a skirt I am like a grandmother on an old kettle at that.

Began a relationship with a man, he is older in general, but stately, 33 years, and here he demands that I wear dresses, shoes, ready to buy it all, I went to meet but awkward zhut. I look ridiculous and I feel awful about it.

Break up with a man or get used to uncomfortable clothes?