I have been dating a guy for a little over a year. He knows my daughter for 9 years, he sees her often (we work together).

Yesterday the child had his birthday. He did not congratulate me even in words, not to mention that at least he gave me a chocolate to my child.

Before that he gave me no present for my birthday, and only after a scandal he brought me a present a few days later.

At the same time he was making plans for our future together. We do not live together yet.

I am sitting and thinking, should I not chase him away?