How do you get to a place to meet a man if it's your first date?

If you ask him to pick you up, it's dangerous to get into a car with a stranger: he might pretend to be adequate on the Internet, but in fact turn out to be a blnik or a mnk, there are many such cases.

Well and to give the address also it is not very much desirable at once: it can appear the stalker and to pursue then.

Appoint a meeting near the house - similarly.

Asking me to call a cab somehow impudent, I think, is not cultured that(((.

Call a cab yourself in large cities is quite expensive. And to go to the subway dressed up and in heels is uncomfortable and uncomfortable.