Hi! I'd love to hear your thoughts.
The topic is as follows. I'm 36, she's 40.
We moved in together six months ago. Everything would have been fine, but accidentally, in the drawers under the bed, I found her wedding album.
They divorced 12 years ago, have a mutual, adult son who lives with his father.
Then in the divorce, she was thrown out the door with her suitcases, and now there's a purely formal relationship because of her son. So I rule out romance.
I was married too and have kids too, but it wouldn't even occur to me to lug that kind of junk around, much less store it under the bed where I'm already sleeping with a new woman.
From my point of view, it would be disgusting and disrespectful to her. Naturally, it is not pleasant for me, but I do not show it yet.
Help me understand the situation.
