My husband and I were perfectly compatible in sex and temperament. We needed to have sex very rarely, once a month for free (this asexuality was the reason for both my and his breakups with his exes). We lived this way for 10 years, and after the second birth I lost my mind. I won't say that I want every day, but compared to my previous need, I started to feel like a nymphomaniac. I want at least three or four times a week, I throw myself at my husband, and he doesn't want me to. He doesn't understand what is going on, everything was fine before. I already thought it was something with my hormones: I checked my waistline up and down and everything was fine. I have no idea what to do. I have become irritable, I snap. I do not want to cheat: we have two children, common life. Should I ruin it all for the sake of itching between my legs? How I wish that I had become cold again and did not want anything.