I want to hear the opinions of lovely ladies. I have a good mistress, smart, beautiful. Together for a long time with her. But she does not know that I am married.

Then it occurred to my wife that she wants to live in Germany (she is a German by birth) and she has all the documents to move there.

She was offered a job there (she is an architect). You cannot take your mistress to Germany with you. My wife wouldn't understand.

I'll have to break up with her. How can I leave my mistress so she won't worry too much? What should I do?