My husband bought himself a cell phone, he wanted it, he bought it. He said I bought it with my own money.

It's very frustrating, although I asked him for a phone for the holiday a long time ago. Even offered to add on if it was expensive. I need a phone for work with a good camera. It's not just an afterthought.

His salary is higher than mine. And we have an agreement that he pays the rent and I pay for food. But only he pays what we agreed and saves the rest. I spend all my wages on food and the house.

It's a lot of money and I can't save for it. He doesn't want to add to it.

He says you can earn a living and buy yourself a cell phone. I don't have to buy you one. Is that fair? I'm 24, my husband's 29.