Ten years ago, when we got married, I was earning very little compared to my husband. But in the last two years things have changed a lot.
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I set up an online store and my income has become big, even after deducting taxes and other expenses, but my husband's has decreased, because he stopped trying and getting bonuses.
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Now all the family support is on me. For three months now, my husband has been trying to brainwash me about the fact that I prevent him from feeling like a breadwinner with my income.
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He says that if I don't close up store, he will divorce me and find someone who makes him feel like a breadwinner. His self-esteem is down.
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I've told him more than once to start trying again and getting bonuses, then our income will equalize. All he does is wave his hand. He doesn't even talk sense.
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How am I supposed to wind down the business when we have a mortgage and two kids. Although sometimes I think that either he is just jealous, or he found another one and is looking for an opportunity to get out.