The man has been divorced for about six months. The wife was the initiator, although he wrote that they are both initiators.

From Friday to Monday he always spends time with the child from the wife. Takes him to his place or stays with him at her flat. He does not write to me during this time. It turns out that at weekends he is always with the child.

He is writing that he is torn between two houses, and it is hard for him emotionally and organizationally after the divorce.

We do not communicate for a long time, but is it worth it to continue as you think? Would you?

It's kind of freaking me out. When are we going to see each other if he's always with the baby at the weekends. He's eight years older than me, I've never been married, no kids.