Hello! I have three children and my common-law husband, sometimes we have his little daughter, who I treat very well.

We have been living in my apartment for several months, and we still can't agree on finances or household chores.

Now it turns out that the repairs are on me, the house is on me, the finances are on me. MH says that since the apartment and kids aren't his, the responsibility isn't his either.

Sometimes he buys groceries, can nail up a shelf, sometimes when I am really strapped for cash, with a scandal he pays the utility bill.

Maybe someone has faced a similar situation? Maybe in vain, I expect help from him, but gradually I notice that he is behaving like a guest. What to do?