My husband suggests that we have sex in threesomes. It's just unacceptable to me that my husband would give pleasure to someone else, and even in front of me, it's unacceptable. I can't even imagine it.

He suggests we try swiping. It's like I'll be cool with it. Butooooo!!! I don't want another dick! He says it can't be like that, we all want something new. I can't explain to him that dick isn't the main thing!!!!

At least for me. On my refusal said ok then we will live as most (cheating quietly).

I am shocked me he does not understand or does not want to understand! Is this the end of the relationship?