Good evening, I don't know who to ask for help or advice. I hope that you will take the time to write to me and tell me what you would do in my situation.

I am getting married the day after tomorrow. I am 18 years old and my future husband is 24 years old. I have an increased growth of hair on my body and face. But over time, the growth of hair is still decreasing. I used to use a razor when I was 14,15,16 years old. I also tried epilator, depilatory cream, wax. I did not like these methods.

The reason for the long to describe, but I think I'm not the only one. For about a year I tried shugaring, gradually the hair began to grow into the skin.

Acid creams, scrubbing and other products did not help. Sometimes I used tweezers to remove the hair and it did not change either.

When I met my future husband I was 17 years old, but practically 18. I occasionally used shugaring, went either to a salon or at home, sometimes I did it myself. But most of the time I didn't remove my hair, that is, I walked around hairy) My future husband was fine with everything.

After he proposed to me he changed a lot. He started putting all kinds of prohibitions. He reproaches me all the time that my butt isn't round enough, but most importantly, he wants me to get my butt waxed for him all the time.

When I told him about how he used to be fine with everything, he started to wonder if it was worth getting married. To which I replied that it was better to postpone the conversation and continue after some time. And then he got even more mad at me, but started apologizing and saying that it was okay that I should do the shugaring for him.

It really hurt me in the shower after that. The marriage is coming up. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of doing something wrong already. I feel like I'm in a cage.