My man proposed to me. I've been divorced for 7 years. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we love each other.
The thing is, my son of 10 years is adamantly against it. I know that many will start "speculating" unknown, so I will say at once: my man and my son together have never been without my presence. My son is in contact with his birth father. Realises that my reunion with him is impossible.
I don't know what to do. I love my son madly, he doesn't answer anything concrete when asked why he is against it, maybe the ex put something in his ears, I don't know.
I want to arrange my personal life, I want to live with the person I love. It feels like everything is against me.
What decision would you make if you were me?
My man treats my son very respectfully, kindly. Always congratulates him on his birthday, talks about his interests, tells something interesting about cars, dogs, technology, but my son is categorically against him.