Hi everyone, I'll get straight to the point, I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we're 19, we live together, after a fight we've worked out who doesn't like what, and so on.

Here he gives out to me a phrase that we the next few years have not started a conversation about the wedding ever, I do not know why he said it at all, we for all relations spoke about it 2 times from forces and that not seriously, and I do not understand that here such.

He said there was no point in getting married now because there was no money, no flat. But don't people get married to legitimize their relationship? So they're not boyfriend and girlfriend, but husband and wife, more seriously.

Why is he so fundamentally reluctant to even talk about it? The relationship is fine, he talks about the future, our relationship until the end, and so on.