We are serious, we have known each other for 2 years, we have been living together for a year. He still has not proposed marriage, but he allegedly wants to. We live in my apartment.

⠀ He asked me to take a $30,000 loan to pay the bill on my car.

He will not get a loan from a bank, since he is not registered. He asked me for help. He promised to register the car in my name while "paying off the loan" (to guarantee that he will not cheat), and then he will register it in his own name again.

I love him, and want to help, but somehow I am not calm at the thought, and I can not see the situation with sober eyes.

⠀ I rejected his request, he took offense, made a scandal and did not say anything for two days. What should I do?