I'm 19, my boyfriend is 26. This is my first serious relationship, so I don't know what to do. The thing is, he's always bossing me around, I can't say a word.
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He thinks that men are generally more sober-minded than women.
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A lot of attitudes. He has to eat first, and second, and compote... We moved in together, I haven't cooked since I was a kid. If he suddenly thinks I've decided something for him... that's it, a disaster. All day long he would tell me where I was wrong, and that he was the only one who made the decisions.
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⠀ He made me quit smoking because he told me that a girl who smokes is just shameful, that he is ashamed of me and he won't go out with me.
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Then we have guests over and my girlfriends come over and everyone is laughing, etc. If I interrupt him at the table, it's a disaster too. He'll yell and insult me in front of everybody.
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I used to talk at the table, now I'm quiet 80% of the time.
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Everything seems to be going well with us. But somehow I feel like he's not right. I tried to talk to him, he doesn't understand what I mean. My girlfriends tell me I'm a bitch, I'm breaking myself, he's not right for me, etc. But I love him very much. Please tell me what to do?