A few years ago I met a man with whom I was in love with, now it is very dear and dear to me, but I will not divorce him, even though I have a mutual understanding with my mistress.

Everything was fine, but about a year ago she became jealous. She is very unhappy and I can see that she is hurt, and it pains me too, she cannot leave me alone.

Is it worth ending the relationship myself, so as not to torture the person and let her live her life? How can I do it in a less painful way?