It's my birthday the other day. I have been dating a man for six months. Yesterday he gave me a gift worth $100 while we were at the mall.
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I had no plans to celebrate, I told him nothing, and then he asked me: "Well, what shall we do to celebrate? Where are you taking me? He smiles.
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⠀ I said that I had not even thought about celebrating, because it was just the two of us, there was no one to invite, and I had no extra money, and he said that it was impossible not to celebrate.
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And last night late in the evening it became clear to me from him that if we go to a cafe, then I pay for the banquet. I was a little confused, I said I did not propose you to celebrate, you wanted to, and asked about it, and he smiled and said well, at least once, you yourself invite me somewhere and pay!
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It would be one thing if I was the first to tell him publicly that I invited him to go out, but I kept silent, he brought up the topic himself!
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My salary is three times less than his! He knows. I don't have a lot of money, and I've never paid for men.
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⠀ Could it be a test or something? Do you think I should take him to a cafe and pay the bill?