Help me understand. The situation is as follows. There were guests at home, celebrating a birthday. We were drinking. I went to my room.

When I came back, I found my husband standing drunk with his underpants down and a friend on a chair.

He explained it was because when she started pestering him to take his underpants off, he pushed her away, she sank down on a chair and I walked in at that moment.

I packed my things and left. Got divorced. He ran after me all that year, swore he was telling the truth, that there was no cheating, sent me gifts.

I ignored him, called him horrible words, threw flowers in his face. He silently tolerated it all and came to work again.

It's been a year - I've cooled down and I think, maybe there really wasn't any cheating.