I don't know if it will get easier or not. I decided to write to you. I'm 28 years old. I met my wife when I was 21.

She already had a kid, it didn't bother me one bit. I started courting, three months later we started dating. I fell head over heels in love

Half a year later I found out she was pregnant. I asked her to marry me without thinking. It was a lot of things. I'm hardworking, loving. Active in bed. We bought an apartment three years ago, though with a mortgage. I did the repairs, all by myself.

I made good money for our region, from 50 to 100k. The only thing I did wrong was to go to my parents to live with them in case of serious quarrels.

But I always tried to help her with the kids and financially. But in the end, while I was away on business. She had an affair with a 48-year-old grandfather, a regular customer from work. And he is married for the second time and has a daughter from his current marriage and two sons from his first one.

She did not stop talking to him when I came back from my business trip. I found out about the affair purely by chance 3 or 4 months after it started. We are getting divorced and she wants to be with him.

I love her and the kids very much. And I don't know how to go on with my life. For me all these 6 years, nothing was more important than family. And I haven't cheated on her once.

Six years of my life down the drain. Girls, what's wrong with you? Why would you do that?